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Say 'I Do' Without the Drama and Grandkid-Approved Beaches! 🌞🏖️
📰 Better With Age New Jersey: News and Events for Monmouth County Seniors
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It’s Wednesday, New Jersey!
💙🤍❤️It’s also National Flag Week! The Monmouth County Clerk’s Office is saluting Old Glory with a weeklong tribute on social media! From flag etiquette tips to fascinating historical facts and vintage photos, you’ll find a daily dose of patriotism through Flag Day, Saturday, June 14. Follow along on Facebook, Instagram, or X and show your stars & stripes pride!
👀What’s on tap today:
Grandkid-approved beaches
Say “I do” without the drama
Honoring EMS heroes
Up first….
🏖️ Grab the Sunscreen and the Snack Bags! ☀️
Looking for the perfect Jersey Shore beach to take the grandkids this summer? We’ve rounded up our favorite sandy spots with gentle surf, clean restrooms, and enough fun to tire them out before dinner. (You’re welcome.)
🎠Frequently voted a top destination for families, Ocean City gets the stamp of approval from parents and kids. Enjoy expanses of clean shorefront and attentive lifeguards as you play in the surf. Nearby, discover plenty of family-friendly activities, including OC Waterpark, Playland’s Castaway Cove and Ocean City Parasail, plus countless arcades and miniature golf courses.
🎡The extra-wide shoreline in The Wildwoods is the ideal spot to enjoy soft white sands, endless fun and bright, mid-century Doo Wop architecture. Boogie board, body surf and build castles on the FREE beaches, or stroll the lively 38-block boardwalk (but, “watch the tramcar, please!”). Get your kicks on rides that range from kiddie to extreme thrills to water slides on Morey’s Piers & Beachfront Waterparks. You can also surf the FlowRider at Splash Zone Waterpark.
🎢Looking for more shore towns boasting bustling boardwalk excitement? Look no further than Point Pleasant Beach with its Jenkinson’s Boardwalk, which includes an amusement park, aquarium, high-ropes course, arcades, mini golf and more. And along the stretch of sand known as LBI (short for Long Beach Island), Beach Haven amps up the kid-approved fun dreams are made of at its Fantasy Island Amusement Park.
Quick question: What’s your favorite beach to take the grandkids? Reply to [email protected] so we can share your tips with our readers!
News & Notes
💒 Love is in the Air… and at the Golf Club! ⛳💍
Ready to say “I do!” without the drama (or the buffet)? Monmouth County Clerk Christine Giordano Hanlon is inviting couples to tie the knot at a Group Wedding Ceremony on Thursday, June 26, at the lovely Hominy Hill Clubhouse in Colts Neck. It’s scenic, sweet—and no table assignments required!
🪑 Space is limited (just like your guest list—4 max!), but the whole event will be livestreamed for far-flung friends and curious grandkids. Bring your license, bring your love, and leave the seating chart behind.
📸 Ceremony only, but you’ll have time for those “we still got it” wedding photos.
💌 Sign up soon, lovebirds!
👉 Click here to apply
🏛️ Step Back in Time with Manalapan History 🕰️
History buffs, take note! A brand-new historical display has just debuted in the lobby of the Monmouth County Clerk’s Office in Freehold. This latest exhibit features fascinating artifacts from Manalapan, curated by the Manalapan Historical Committee.
The Clerk’s Office at 33 Mechanic Street hosts rotating exhibits from local historical groups, so there’s always something new to discover. Stop by weekdays between 8:30 a.m. and 4:30 p.m. to explore a bit of the past—no time machine required!
📸 Can’t make it in person?
👉 View the photo album online
Prime Time News
Links to the latest news on aging from trusted media sources.
Should You Ditch Your Medicare Advantage Plan? Most People Do: If you're tempted to ditch your Medicare Advantage plan, you're not alone. Here's when it's a good idea and how to go about it. Kiplinger, June 6
Does Medicare Cover the Shingles Vaccine? Learn about Medicare's policies on covering the shingles vaccine and why you should protect yourself. U.S. News & World Report, June 2.
What It's Really Like Living in the Margaritaville Retirement Community: Retirees looking for an active lifestyle are turning to retirement communities like Latitude Margaritaville. Here’s what it’s like to live out your retirement in one of its three sprawling communities. Kiplinger, June 6.
Department of Education Reverses Course on Social Security Garnishment: In an apparent change of course, the Department of Education said Tuesday that Social Security benefits will not be garnished for student loan borrowers who default. Investopedia, June 3.
Your Estate Plan Needs an Advance Directive for Dementia: Add an advance directive for dementia to your estate plan with one of these free tools. Kiplinger, June 4.
When Grandchildren Come to Visit: While we're thrilled to see our grandchildren, they can either enhance our social lives or wreak havoc. And sometimes they can do both. Next Avenue, June 3.
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📚 Beyond the Books
Library events this week that seniors won’t want to miss!
🧶 Yarn Works: A Crochet & Knit Drop-In
📍 Holmdel Library | 🗓️ Final Session Before Summer: June 11, 1 to 3 p.m.
Bring your own yarn project and enjoy a social gathering with fellow crafters. No instruction, just community and creativity.
❤️ Be a Lifesaver: CPR & Emergency Response
📍 Holmdel Branch | 🕐 June 11, 1:30–2:30 PM
Learn hands-only CPR and emergency response techniques with Hackensack Meridian Health.
👉 Registration recommended.
🦀 Horseshoe Crabs: Living Fossils!
📍 Eastern Branch, Shrewsbury | 🕐 June 11, 1:30–2:30 PM
A fascinating family-friendly marine science program by the American Littoral Society.
👉 Register to guarantee your seat.
🎶 Summer Concert: Carnaby St. Duo
📍 Howell Branch | 🕕 June 11, 6:30–7:30 PM
Hits from the 1960s, from The Beatles to Dylan. Refreshments served.
🥗 Plant-Based Eating
📍 Eastern Branch | 🕛 June 12, 12–2 PM
Learn about plant-based health benefits, local resources, and upcoming events.
⚰️ Cemetery Preservation Talk
📍 Marlboro Branch | 🕐 June 12, 1–2 PM
Preservation tips and stories from local archaeologist Kristen Hohn.
👉 Registration preferred.
💰 Retirement Savings Workshop
📍 Howell Branch | 🕕 June 12, 6:30–7:30 PM
Smart strategies for a secure retirement with advisor Jordan Sirota.
✍️ Creative Writer’s Workshop
📍 Allentown Branch | 🕖 June 12, 7–8:45 PM
Bring your work and get feedback from a local author and fellow writers.
🎨 Temari Thread Ball Crafting
📍 Headquarters, Manalapan | 🕙 June 14, 10–11:30 AM
Make traditional Japanese thread balls with artist Mary Hussey.
👉 Registration required.
🤔Democracy Today: What’s My Role?
📍 Eastern Branch | 🕖 June 16, 7–8 PM
An interactive session on civic engagement with the League of Women Voters.
🧭 Monmouth ACTS in My Community
📍 Allentown Branch | 🕙 June 17, 10 AM–1 PM
Help with SNAP, Medicaid, NJ FamilyCare and more — no appointment needed.
⚾ Author Talk: Phil Coffin & Baseball History
📍 Allentown Branch | 🕝 June 18, 2:30–3:30 PM
Stories from baseball’s golden age, straight from the author of A Baseball Book of Days.
👉 Space is limited, register early!
Visit the Monmouth County Library website for more information.

FREEHOLD, NJ – The Monmouth County Board of County Commissioners honored all emergency medical services (EMS) personnel by recognizing May 18–24 as EMS Week during the Commissioners Workshop Meeting on May 22 with Monmouth County Sheriff’s Office MedStar EMTs. Photo by Monmouth County Government
🚑 Honoring Our Monmouth County EMS Heroes
The Monmouth County Board of County Commissioners recently celebrated EMS Week (May 18–24) by recognizing the dedication and lifesaving efforts of emergency medical services personnel across the county.
Commissioner Director Thomas A. Arnone praised local EMTs, saying:
"Emergency Medical Technicians provide critical care to everyone in need. Their skills are tested daily, and they rise to every challenge. We’re incredibly grateful for their unwavering commitment to helping others in times of crisis."
A special spotlight was given to MedStar, which officially became a licensed Basic Life Support agency on Dec. 29, 2023. Since then, MedStar has:
Responded to more than 6,000 service calls
Transported over 3,800 patients to area hospitals
Hired more than 75 EMTs
Deployed 17 ambulances
Maintained an impressive average response time of 5 minutes and 28 seconds
Commissioner Deputy Director Susan M. Kiley added: "Thank you to all MedStar staff and volunteer EMTs across Monmouth County for your hard work, compassion, and dedication to public safety."
To learn more, visit mcsonj.org.
🌍Beyond Our Backyard
Looking for a change of scenery? We’ve rounded up great events just outside Monmouth County this month—perfect for seniors who want to roam (but not too far).
🐂 Cowtown Rodeo
📅 Saturdays through Sept. 27 | 🕢 7:30–9:30 p.m.
📍 780 Harding Hwy., Pilesgrove
Saddle up for summer fun! Enjoy seven live pro-rodeo events including bull riding, barrel racing, and team roping. Food, fun, and festivities for all ages. Info
✈️ NJ Air Show
📅 June 13–15
📍 126 Airport Rd., West Milford
This high-flying Father’s Day weekend adventure features daring aerial stunts, laser shows, and pyrotechnics from top airshow performers. Info
⚽ FIFA Club World Cup
📅 June 15–July 13
📍 MetLife Stadium, East Rutherford
Have a grandkid who’s a soccer fan? Catch nine thrilling matches featuring the world’s best soccer clubs. Check the website for team schedules, ticket info, and local happenings. Info
🎤 Barefoot Country Music Fest
📅 June 19–22
📍 Wildwood Beach, next to Morey’s Piers
Get ready for Jason Aldean, Jelly Roll, Laney Wilson, Rascal Flatts and more on the beach! It’s a multi-day country music blowout you won’t want to miss. Info
🎸 Rock, Ribs & Ridges
📅 June 27–29
📍 Sussex County Fairgrounds, Augusta
Music legends, mouthwatering BBQ, and weekend camping all in one! Featuring George Thorogood & the Destroyers, The Allman Betts Band, and top pitmasters. Info
🎆 Warren County Bicentennial Celebration
📅 June 28 | ⏰ 12 p.m. | ☔ Rain date: June 29
📍 Warren County Community College, Washington
Travel back to the 1800s with food, music, historical demos, games, and fireworks to celebrate 200 years of Warren County history. Info
🎖️ Battle of Monmouth Reenactment
📅 June 28–29
📍 20 State Rt. 33, Manalapan
Two days of immersive Revolutionary War reenactments, camp tours, historical lectures, and more — commemorating a major NJ battle. Info
Red, White & Blueberry Festival
📅 June 29 | ⏰ 10 a.m. – 4 p.m.
📍 Hammonton High School, Hammonton
Celebrate all things blueberry — pies, jams, and treats — with food trucks, crafters, live music, kids’ activities, and a classic car show. Info
🌳 This Week in the Parks 🎶🎣
There’s something for everyone in Monmouth County’s parks this week—from big band concerts to fishing derbies and historic tunes!
🎺 Concert in the Park: Sentimental Journey Big Band
Friday, June 13, 7–8:30 p.m.
Thompson Park Theater Barn, Lincroft
Swing into the weekend with timeless tunes from the Big Band era. Bring lawn chairs, blankets, and snacks. (Moves indoors if it rains.) FREE!
🪗 Accordion Melodies of the 1890s
Saturday, June 14, 1–3 p.m.
Historic Longstreet Farm, Holmdel
Enjoy charming turn-of-the-century tunes while you stroll the farm. FREE!
🎣 Freshwater Fishing Derby
Saturday, June 14, 2–5 p.m. at Manasquan Reservoir, Howell
Sunday, June 15, 2–5 p.m. at Turkey Swamp Park, Freehold
Start with a free fishing clinic from 12:30–1:30 p.m. Prizes, rentals, and bait provided!
$28 per family of 4 | $9 per person | $5 per rental pole
🎻 Bluegrass & Old-Time Music Jam
Sunday, June 15, 1–3 p.m.
Thompson Park, Lincroft – Outside the Theater Barn
Bring your fiddle, banjo, or just your ears—this open jam session is always a toe-tapper! FREE!
🎵 Music on the Porch
Sunday, June 15, 1–3 p.m.
Historic Walnford, Upper Freehold
Enjoy acoustic melodies in a picturesque setting. Porch sitting never sounded so good. FREE!
🐦 Casual Birder Walk
Tuesday, June 17, 9 a.m.
Hartshorne Woods Park, Locust – Claypit Creek parking lot
Take a relaxed bird walk through scenic terrain with a Park Naturalist. No birding skills required! FREE!
🧺 Don’t forget your sunscreen, water bottle, and a good pair of walking shoes.
For details, call 732-842-4000 or visit the Monmouth County Park System website.
🎉 Happy 68th Birthday, Dev Josephs! 🎂
Wishing a fantastic day to Dev Josephs of Manalapan, who turns 68 today, June 11! May your day be filled with love, laughter, and a slice (or two) of cake. 🎈🎁
🎬 A few other notable folks who share your special day:
– Gene Wilder (1933-2016) – The unforgettable star of Willy Wonka and Young Frankenstein
– Shia LaBeouf (1986) – Actor best known for Transformers and Holes
– Peter Dinklage (1969) – Emmy-winning star of Game of Thrones
– Dr. Oz (1960) – TV personality and health guru
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🌞 Share Your Summer Memories! 🌻
Monmouth County summers have a special magic—and we want to hear YOUR story! What’s your favorite childhood summer memory here? Maybe it’s a day at the beach, a beloved ice cream spot, or a family tradition that still makes you smile. Send us your stories, photos, or even recipes that remind you of those sunny days gone by. Your memories help keep our community’s rich history alive—and inspire us all!
📧 Email your stories to [email protected]
🎬That’s a wrap!
🚑 Shoutout to our Monmouth County EMS Heroes! 🙌
Every day, our Emergency Medical Services workers show up with skill, courage, and compassion to keep us safe and healthy. Let’s take a moment to salute these dedicated men and women who work around the clock to help our neighbors in need. Your bravery and kindness do not go unnoticed—Monmouth County seniors thank you! ❤️
Have a story or a thank-you message for an EMS worker?
We’d love to hear it! Send your notes, memories, or shoutouts to [email protected] and we’ll share them in an upcoming edition. Let’s show our EMS heroes how much we appreciate all they do!
📍 Don’t Miss Out at Your Local Senior Center!
Looking for fun activities, helpful programs, or just some good company? Check in with your local senior center to see what’s happening this week — there’s always something going on just for you! 🎨🧘🎶
❓Questions, comments or news to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected]
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😊See you next week!
The Better With Age New Jersey team